When sex columnist and activist Dan Savage started his advice column, "Savage Love," he had no idea that his open, straight-talk approach would gain such enormous popularity.

What are we constantly looking for? Romance or love? A mix of the two perhaps?

The debate over an exact definition of love may be found in literature as well as in the works of psychologists, philosophers, biochemists and other

professionals and specialists. Romantic love is a relative term, but generally accepted as a definition that distinguishes moments and situations within

interpersonal relationships to an individual as contributing to a significant relationship connection.